Posts tagged curvy.
Plus sized model Ashley Graham
The people who get angriest about fat girls looking good and feeling hot are the people who are the most strongly invested in the idea that a person has to be skinny in order to be happy, healthy, and loved.
Very often it’s people just projecting their own body-loathing onto someone else; if you’re truly comfortable and confident in your own skin, it shouldn’t make a difference to you what anyone else is wearing, or how they look. It only affects you if it’s making you question your assumptions, about both other people and about yourself.
So things that have happened in the past few days have made me realize that people are assholes.
All anyone cares about is the way that you look. You can be the worst kind of person that there is, but if you are found attractive by a large majority of people, then it’s ok. Someone who I consider a friend, told me that looks mean everything, and without your looks, you’re nothing as a person. Let me fucking tell you something. If someone wants to judge me based solely on my looks, then clearly I don’t need you in my life.
I’m chunky. I have brown hair and brown eyes. I am covered in scars and stretch marks from weight gain and loss. And you know what? I fucking love myself.
If you don’t like me because I’m fat, then get the hell out of my life.
If the worst insult you have for me, is that I’m fat and ugly, then you need to do some soul searching. Judging someone based on their weight is the easiest way to insult someone. But you know what? Get to know who I am as a person, and I bet you won’t want me out of your life.
I have a very small and selective few who have been in my life for years. My best friend has loved me for the past 8 years. He loves me, fat and all. And do you know why? Because of my personality and my character.
My other best friend is getting married this year. And guess what? She’s not a fucking twig. Her man loves her for who she is, not the number on the scale. She is a bad ass broad and she’s not afraid to be herself 100% of the time.
If you are so superficial that you have to judge me for wearing skinny jeans when I’m ‘too fat for that’ then you really have nothing better to do, and you need to pad you own ego.
I am so tired of being judged for the way that I look instead of for the kind of person that I am. I have met girls who have a ton of ‘friends’ just because they’re cute. They fish for compliments and go on and on about how unattractive they are. I totally understand that there are thin girls who do have serious body issues, but I am talking about the girls who know people find them attractive, but still complain just so people tell them how gorgeous they are. The kinds of people who are so desperate for attention just to make themselves feel good, because they’re a shitty human being.
I’m just so frustrated.
Honetly, people make me sick.
If I wanted your opinion on the way I dressed I would ask for it. Just because I wear skinny jeans and I’m not 100 pounds doesn’t give you the right to comment on my big ass, or whisper how disgusting my body is and why I don’t ‘cover up’ more.
I’m wearing a hoddie, skinny jeans and converse. It’s like 40 degrees out, how much more do you want me to be covered up? Is it because my pants are tight, and you can see the curve of my ass and the fullness of my thighs? Does my plus sized appearance bother you?
Too. Fucking. Bad.
Grow up. I’m not standing here commenting on how your shirt is too tight, and you looks like you’ve done steroids too many times. Or how your fake tan makes you look even more like a fucking tool. I don’t give a shit about your $5000 suites. Just because I like skinny jeans, I’m going to wear them. So get your fucking heads out of your ass and don’t comment. I’m sorry I don’t look like your supermodel girlfriend, that you cheat on all the time because you have the money to flaunt, and you go for gold diggers.
My body is MINE, I will wear what I want, when I want to.